the melodramatic mouse attempts to blog
2 February 2010
Attn To:
Labour Delivery Unit
Gleneagles Intan Medical Centre
Kuala Lumpur
Dear Midwives & Nurses
Below is my “ideal” birthing scenario, but I am aware that in the event of a life-threatening emergency, I will be relying on your professional judgment and skills to see us through.
#1 – Labour
Birth Companion
My husband
Pain Management/Pain Relief
Walking, Stretching Exercise, Breathing Techniques, Birthing Ball
Gas and Air only
Hydration/Food
Drinking fluids rather than having an IV
Light nibbling on biscuit or bread to prevent gastritis
Water or juice for hydration
Monitoring
Intermittent EFM if baby and I are doing well
#2 – Delivery
Delivery Position
Preferably on hands and knees
Otherwise remaining upright on the bed
Perineal Tear/Episiotomy
Allow natural tearing before episiotomy
Cutting the Umbilical Cord
My husband
Placenta Delivery
Syntometrine Injection
#3 – After Delivery
Hold baby and begin breastfeeding immediately
All newborn procedures done in my presence or in my husband’s presence
Vaccinations — BCG (on the arm) and Hepatitis B1
#4 – Infant Care
Breastfeeding only — no bottles or pacifiers
#5 – If C-section is needed
To breastfeed as soon as possible
Thank you
Sincerely,
Mellomouse
Approved by,
Dr Tan Lay Seng
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7 Responses to My Birth Plan, pt 2 – Approved!
Ayu
February 3rd, 2010 at 11:31 am
weoww so detailed! hehe I dont have any birth plan. gleneagles is not breastfeeding friendly hospital ke? Mine is. so after delivery, yr baby will be given to you for his/her first feed, immediately.
mellomouse
February 3rd, 2010 at 11:35 am
this is what they called occupational hazard. that’s me with everything – needs to be detailed LOL.
yup gleneagles is very breastfeeding friendly. actually they won’t give formula unless you specifically request for it. but you know la, just in case better include into it
Joey
February 3rd, 2010 at 12:05 pm
Wow…so professional! Your doctor really allowed you to do it on all fours? Amazing! I’m still scared of switching doctors/hospitals at this point. Hehehe, maybe I should just try and “kacau” my doctor with this idea next week, she’ll definitely roll her eyes in shock.
mellomouse
February 3rd, 2010 at 12:23 pm
He does! And I told him I don’t mind being undignified if it’ll spare me an ounce of pain, esp the tearing part! But I did give myself an option of staying upright if I’m too exhausted in that position.
You should consider your options and not let the doctor direct the show. You odd to have some control of your own wishes. It is your delivery. I seriously don’t agree on delivering lying down because without the gravity, you’ll be pushing like mad!
Joey
February 4th, 2010 at 11:16 pm
I’ve checked around my friends who gave birth in SunMed. They all told me the labour beds are reclinable. My doctor was probably just pulling my leg, I guess. Yes, I should be able to decide how I want to deliver….even WHO states so! Gonna check out KJMC this weekend…
mellomouse
February 4th, 2010 at 11:30 pm
I’m sure they should have reclinable bed. Sounds quite ridiculous for such an established hospital not having it. Your Doc ought to be spanked! LOL
Btw, where is KJMC? I still couldn’t figure out the acronyms hehe
Joey
February 5th, 2010 at 2:39 pm
KJMC = Kelana Jaya Medical Centre. Hehehe, ya, it’s a small hospital occupying several shop lots
but I heard they have a very good gynae there – Dr Fatima