the melodramatic mouse attempts to blog
In: Baby Natey|Father To Be|Little Benjac Junior|Mother To Be|Motherhood|Thanksgiving
19 Mar 2010My story began at approximately 4.07am on 23 February 2010. Being a 1st time Mommy, I was unsure and so I endured — almost turning this story and LBJ into a home delivery *gasps*
I recorded all the contraction time in my mobile as an unsent SMS. It was too early in the morning to wake the husband, so I laid patiently awake in pain until he was up and told him to take the day off. He even managed to go for a morning swim *pat on the back*
By noon the contractions were 7-8 minutes apart. Yet I was still unsure if it was the real deal because I swallowed all the pain as they came. The husband made a call to Dr Tan’s clinic and the Labour Dept asked us to come right in. But I was still adamant to stay put till I was 5 minutes apart. I must have been crazy! I didn’t want to go all the way there and come right back.
At 12.15pm, I staggered into the bathroom and took my last “real” shower. Finally half an hour later, I surrendered *sobs*
The normal 5 minutes lift ride and walk down to the basement carpark — 10 floors plus 3 — took like forever! We reached Gleneagles a little before 2pm — thankfully no traffic! — and that’s when the no-words-can-describe pain climaxed. I was already 7cm dilated!
As indicated in my Birth Plan, I only wanted Gas & Air and that’s exactly what I had. Was it any help? It doesn’t do anything for the pain and I was almost knocked out every time it took effect.
I remembered Dr Tan came in twice. The 1st was to check on me, and the 2nd about 45 minutes later when I was ready to deliver. With 2 big pushes, LBJ was heard crying so loud! His Apgar Score was 91 105. After the husband cut LBJ’s umbilical cord, he was taken for a quick clean before passing to me.
I am a Mother!
♥ Filled with awe & thanksgiving ♥

3 Generations in a Flash: GrandMama, MelloMom & LBJ
LBJ stared at me with the biggest pair of eyes as he cried his little heart out. A head full of fine black hairs and neatly-tugged-to-the-side ears — not like Mommy’s Mickey ears — he was the most handsome baby to a Mother’s eyes! Immediately I fell in love with God’s Gift to us.
At that very moment, I was never more sure that the name Nathaniel was meant for LBJ than anything else in the whole wide world ♥
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[mel-uh-druh-mat-ik]
–adjective
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2. exaggerated and emotional or sentimental; sensational or sensationalized; overdramatic.
–noun
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–noun
1. any similar small animal of various rodent and marsupial families.
2. a quiet, timid person.
3. Slang. a girl or woman.
4 Responses to Postnatal 00: My Birth Story.
Joey
March 25th, 2010 at 11:07 pm
Well done, Jac! It’s very courageous of you to have gone through the experience without any pain relief. I salute your high pain threshold.
Very lucky of you to be blessed with a fast labour as well. Mine was painfully long – dilated to 1cm in 13 hours, then another 4cm in 7 hours. The pain was so traumatizing for me that my whole body shivered and became numb. Enthonox didn’t help at all. The final straw came when I collapsed on the way to toilet and we ordered an epidural, which further slowed down the labour. Fifteen hours later, Ewan came.
I’m sure you’ll agree with me that Iseeing our babies makes every pain and torture worth it
mellomouse
March 26th, 2010 at 12:24 am
I was blessed for the fast delivery, but no doubt it was crazily pain as well. I bite my lips till it bleed internally. I also didn’t include in this story about my horrible piles aftermath. I stayed extra 2 days because of it and was in hell!
The clock was just right in front of me, and I was staring at it wondering why time was passing so slow. And the damn pain coming so fast. But compared to yours, I guess mine was nothing…
Joey
March 31st, 2010 at 3:45 pm
Hey Jac, I had and am still suffering from piles. Are yours better already? Mine was as big as chestnut (no kidding!) and there were more than one. When I first saw them, I thought that labour gave me testicles! Hehehe.
Mine are still there; am contemplating about having them removed, which will probably cost another 4k to 5k. Further made worse by infection around my stitches…I was in total pain last week that I couldn’t sit to breastfeed and am now expressing milk for Ewan
Mind sharing how your piles got better? I’m desperate here.
mellomouse
March 31st, 2010 at 6:28 pm
I dropped you a mail with my contacts. Let’s talk over the phone