the melodramatic mouse is now mellomom
In: Motherhood|Postnatal
24 Mar 2010I have faithfully observed all — 90% at least — the confinement practices for a month. I have no idea what the other 10% are since even my Mother is at lost. We had to constantly call my Grand Aunty for directions *LOL*
What is Postnatal Confinement?
Traditional confinement practices stem from the belief that your body is considered ‘out of balance’ as you enter a ‘cold stage’ due to the loss of blood and energy from the birth.
The confinement period focuses on re-energising your body with the ‘warmth’ that has been lost.
I am usually very good at following rules and restrictions. My biggest complain the whole month was my increasing body heat. I definitely felt 10x hotter than during my pregnancy. So not being able to shower and wash my hair was a big torture.
Throughout the 30 days — I reckon it’s not the end yet — I sweated buckets due to the furnace in my body albeit in the air conditioned bedroom. Every night I wake up boiling and I’m not joking! Literally felt like fire on my skin.
I did not wash my hair for 12 days. I failed the 20 days rule and the husband was already calling me Smelly Wifey by Day 8! *sobs*
In total I “washed” my hair 4x — by pouring steaming hot water over my head, which I later sweat profusely again because of the heat and blow drying.
I’m so glad that the 30 days has come to an end. That means I can finally have a “real” bath, even though I still have to use the boiled Herbal Bath and Old Ginger. I would still need to take special care not to catch cold/wind because the body has not fully recovered 100%.
Besides all these whiny complains, I enjoyed all the confinement dishes my Mother cooked. Am now an avid fan of Ginger, and still 10kg from the pregnancy to shed
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mel⋅o⋅dra⋅mat⋅ic
[mel-uh-druh-mat-ik]
–adjective
1. of, like, or befitting melodrama.
2. exaggerated and emotional or sentimental; sensational or sensationalized; overdramatic.
–noun
3. melodramatics, melodramatic writing or behavior.
mouse
[n. mous; v. mouz]
–noun
1. any similar small animal of various rodent and marsupial families.
2. a quiet, timid person.
3. Slang. a girl or woman.
4 Responses to Postnatal 01: Confinement, pt 1.
May Yee
March 25th, 2010 at 10:47 am
mellomouse
March 25th, 2010 at 10:59 am
There are tons of cheap recipe books in Popular you can get. I got one for my Mom, but I basically loved 1 dish in there which I requested for everyday. For starters, just add a lot lot lot of ginger into every dish!
Btw, 1 month maternity leave is not enough! My batteries are flat and I don’t think there’s any chance for recharge until Nate is off to school…
Joey
March 25th, 2010 at 11:20 pm
Tsks tsks…it’s my turn for confinement and me no likey at all! I feel so invalid, with so many no-no’s to adhere to, especially the no-touching-tap-water & no-washing-hair part. It makes me feel dirty all the time.
On a positive note, I’m enjoying the yummy dishes, having someone wash my dishes & laundry and being pampered – not having to lift a finger
And yes, I agree with the heat…must be the foods we ate.
I’m looking forward to the end of confinement and restoring order into my life again. Too many changes and activities now…I’m overwhelmed.
mellomouse
March 26th, 2010 at 12:16 am
I definitely felt like an invalid too. The amount of water being boiled everyday is crazy!
About the heat, I was already boiling in the hospital before my ginger diet started. I think it is individual.
Hope you’ll have a better confinement than me