Postnatal 10: Confinement, pt 2 – Post Confinement.

In: Motherhood|Postnatal

2 Aug 2010

It is now 4 months after my confinement. It is the perfect time now to share since I had plenty of time to experience the aftermath.

So this is my testimony — and maybe yours — that observing a little restriction for 1 month isn’t so much a jail sentence, especially when the after effect goes a long way after that. Backache is not a joke *sulks*

Superstitious aside, here are a few things we should all pay special care about after delivery. Take heed, Mommies to be :)

#1 Backbone
Try to limit bending over. The best scenario is bending countless time in a day to put/pick up baby from the cot. So baby should sleep besides Mommy on the bed — just imagine 12am, 2am, 4am, 6am breastfeeding — and Daddy on the floor ;)

#2 Hands
Let your Confinement Lady, MIL, Mother or Hubby to do the dirty jobs to limit the need of washing hands — except nature calls lah! Always have cool boiled water for whatever washing needed ready.

#3 Feet
Wear socks and/or house slippers everywhere! Your entire body rest on your soles. So take good care of them.

#4 Hair
If you really must, wash only with hot boiled water — heater is not boiled — and blow dry immediately.

#5 Heavy Objects
You should only be carrying your baby ♥

#6 Air condition vs Fan
Stay clear of direct wind draft, so choose air conditioning. Believe me when I say this, you will be HOT! So cool temperature is better than strong wind ;)

#7 Electric Kettle
Buy one and connect it right outside your bathroom. You won’t believe how many times you’ll be boiling water in a day. For 1 whole month! Remember to get big tongs to store the boiled water.

#8 Diet
Everything hot, hot and hot. Not spicy hot, but Gingery Hot! And lots of Red Dates Water or soups only. Not plain water.

#9 Rest
Try, try and try. When baby sleep, so must we! I know I didn’t rest much. So you must because I’m enduring the consequences of not trying hard enough.

#10 Crying
Why would you be? Culprits are crazy surging hormones, stress and unsupportive family members! I cried almost everyday. So don’t if you can *hugs*

I hope I didn’t leave too much out, but these should be almost all the important things to care about. Early journey into Motherhood is no easy peasy, so brace yourself for the challenges ahead.

After 3 months, everything will be worth it! Why 3 months? You will know when that time comes ;)



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5 Responses to Postnatal 10: Confinement, pt 2 – Post Confinement.

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May yee

August 3rd, 2010 at 2:08 am

3 months? Why ah?

Totally agree with u with regards to the confinement rules… Now I hv sore wrist, pains when I clench my fingers… stubborn me…

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mellomouse

August 3rd, 2010 at 8:25 am

By 3 months we would have understood our baby’s cries. And be more confidence and less kelam kabut. She’ll be more responsive and playful. Whatever pains we had previously are forgotten. And probably thinking of baby number 2 now kekeke :)

I couldn’t clenched my fingers throughout my confinement and in constant pain because I washed my hands with tap water in the hospital :(

Warn your friends. It’s not all superstitions. After thousands of years across cultures, we should at least be respectful of these mini observations for our own good ;)

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Tracy

August 5th, 2010 at 11:18 am

Dear Jaclyn,

Thanks a lot for the advice. Being a first timer and always being told what to do is pretty stressful. I’ve been trying to be good..but sometimes, washing bottles and all…no choice la… :)

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mellomouse

August 5th, 2010 at 1:03 pm

If you really can’t avoid washing, use cool boiled water. Get hubby to boil as many as possible and keep aside in clean containers.

Taking care now goes a very long way. Hassle or not, you will appreciate it tomorrow. We were all stubborn and now all in aches. That’s why I wrote this post, to forewarn you those Mommies2be and those in confinement now.

Take care!

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sylvia

August 13th, 2010 at 12:37 pm

oh…so detail. I will really help first timers like me.

Hugs for u, Jaclyn. =)

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